Are they 'the one,' or are you destined for better? The problem is you're expecting billboards, yet, the universe's guidance is subtle.
Have you ever had a feeling about something only for it to happen? Have you thought about someone only for them to call you out of the blue? If so, you've received signs.
Things to know
- The universe will send you signs like dreams or a deep sense of connection.
- True soul connections challenge and change you for the better.
- Even if the universe wants you to be with someone, maintaining a meaningful relationship will still take work.
So, how do you tell if the universe wants you to be with someone? Well, it's all in the signs. What's great is that the signs aren't difficult to follow if you know what to look out for.
To help you get in tune with what the universe is saying, we’ll be looking at:
- 6 Signs From The Universe
- Signs The Universe Wants You To Date Someone
- Warnings From The Universe
- The Universe Wants You To Be With Someone, Now What?
6 Signs From The Universe
Here are 6 things that tend to happen when the universe wants you to be with someone:
You'll get your act together
When it's the right time to meet your soulmate, you'll feel the need to make major changes. You'll be ready to let limiting beliefs go and do what's best for you. You'll start to seek out different people and new experiences that are aligned with your purpose.
This is because when the universe wants you to be with someone, being in alignment is one of the first things that happens.
You'll want more
A persistent gut feeling that you aren't where you're supposed to be and that there's more for you out there is a message from the universe. Foreboding feelings tend to signify being on the wrong path, while feeling light and joyful points to being on the right track.
When you're ready to find the love of your life, you'll start to recognize and trust your intuition.
You'll embrace who you are
When the universe truly wants you to be with someone, you'll start to embrace who you are. With true self-love and acceptance, you'll start to attract the right people. It's only when you're whole and content that you'll draw in the right partner.
You’ll experience coincidences
When random occurrences become repetitive or start to follow a pattern, they aren't coincidences anymore: they're signs. When you've opened up your heart to receiving your perfect match, weird things might start to happen.
You might hear the same love song playing in different places throughout your day or be reminded of true love everywhere you go.
If you're coming across random repetitions of numbers everywhere, you're seeing angel numbers. Angel numbers are repeating numbers that point to a significant change in your life. Rest assured, a higher power is working in your favor and imploring you to open yourself up to new love.
You’ll undergo major changes
Often, we need to experience major changes to get on the right path. To make room for better things, old things must fall away. Manifesting what we desire requires us to make room to receive it.
If you've been yearning for the one, don't be surprised if things in your life suddenly start to change. You might lose your job or get promoted to a new location. Toxic friendships that you thought were strong might suddenly come to an end.
While these changes might be overwhelming, take comfort in the fact that they are bringing you closer to what's meant for you.
You’ll be ready to leave the past behind
When you’re ready to receive the love of your life, you'll start to understand why your love life has been so troubled. This shift will help you release any emotional baggage that’s been holding you back.
When you’re ready to meet your soulmate (or if you’ve met them already), you’ll feel like you’re finally becoming who you are meant to be. That "situationship" won't seem so appealing anymore. Basically, you'll finally be ready to leave the past behind.
Signs The Universe Wants You To Date Someone
Here's how to tell if the universe wants you to date someone:
You dream of them
Dreams are usually a way for our subconscious to communicate with us. If you keep dreaming about a particular person, it may point to something deeper, like your twin flame or soulmate reaching out.
On the other hand, dreaming of your ex isn't a sign that the universe wants you to get back together with them. The universe may simply be trying to guide you; old flames represent red flags, but they also represent qualities that you're drawn to.
By reminding you of these qualities, the universe might be giving you a blueprint to find true love again.
You run into them everywhere
It's not a coincidence that you keep on running into a certain person. If you're seeing them everywhere you go, there's more to it. There must be a reason the universe keeps bringing you together. The next time you see them, muster up the courage to strike up a conversation. You never know where a simple "hi" could take you.
You're at peace
After countless heartache, dead ends, and constantly feeling like you would never be happy, you're finally at peace. Maybe they bring out the best in you. Perhaps they make you feel safe — whatever it is, the universe is confirming that you've finally found that special someone.
Even if you haven't met your soulmate yet, being at peace is still a good sign. When you're content and whole, your perfect match is more likely to find you.
Their energy feels familiar to you
Meeting someone you're meant to be with will fill you with a deep sense of recognition. Their energy will feel familiar, like you've known them for years. This is a sign that you have met someone from your soul family. If it's a romantic soulmate connection, you'll also feel intense romantic and sexual attraction.
You just know they’re the one
When you're truly meant to be with someone, you just know it. If they're your twin flame, the deep spiritual connection you share will confirm it. From the moment you meet, you'll feel like you know them.
Because you and a twin flame have been together in a past life, they'll feel like home. Similarly, if they're your soulmate, you'll share a strong connection too. However, unlike twin flames, you aren't part of the same soul: you are part of the same soul family.
You'll feel things you've never felt before
Their presence will energize and comfort you. Your connection will be electric yet soothing at the same time. You'll receive unconditional acceptance but still feel inspired to be the best version of yourself.
Despite such parallels, things will still feel right. You'll feel things you've never felt before, and you'll have no doubt that the universe orchestrated it.
You experience synchronicities
Little moments in our lives that just seem to line up perfectly are known as synchronicities. This is the universe's way of letting you know that you're on the right path. It might be as simple as seeing your crush's favorite soda at a store.
So, next time you run into someone who's been on your mind or when a friend you dreamt about suddenly texts you, pay attention. Plus, if you're experiencing synchronicities around someone, the universe may be giving you soulmate signs.
You're similar in all the ways that count
Bonding and understanding each other is a lot easier when you share the same views. You don't have to be replicas of each other, but if your core values and the way you see life line up, your connection will be more harmonious. Finding someone you "click" with is usually a clear sign that they're meant to be in your life.
You're in it for the long haul
Past relationships always left you wanting more. You always felt the need to fix yourself or fix them. If things feel different now and you finally understand why things didn't work out with your exes, you may finally be with who the universe wants you to be with.
You see them in your future, and they see you in theirs — no games, no doubts, just inner peace.
You feel valued
When the universe wants you to be with someone, you'll feel a deep sense of wholeness within. Because the universe knows what's best for you, your perfect match will be someone who respects, values, and appreciates you for who you are.
It's only when you're with someone who brings out the best in you that you'll be able to live out your purpose.
They compliment you perfectly
The universe knows who you need in your life. So when you're meant to be with someone, there will be clear signs. That person will compliment you in the best ways. They'll be the order to your chaos. They'll provide you with strength where you need it most. Things in your daily life will just run a lot smoother when they're around.
You feel like you can read their mind
You know what they're thinking before they say it. Just one look can tell you everything about how they feel in that present moment. You're like an open book to them too. They can always sense when things aren't alright, and they know exactly what to do to make you feel better.
You aren't imagining things, the strong connection shared between soul mates works in mysterious ways. With deep spiritual connections such as those shared between twin flames, even telepathy is possible. Such connections are rare and tend to be the universe's work.
They fit into your life seamlessly
You can't remember what life was like before them. Even those closest to you see how good they are for you. A great sign that you're with the right person is if you have the approval of your loved ones. If they're practically a part of the family now, you can be sure the universe wants you to be with them.
You share a deep emotional connection
When you're happy, they're happy too, and when you're sad, they're sad too. Being so attuned to each other's emotions points to a soul connection. When the universe wants you to be with someone, you'll be able to empathize with each other in ways that no one else can.
If you're twin flames, you'll actually be able to sense and influence each other's emotions.
Warnings From The Universe
We've looked at some of the strongest signs the universe wants you to be with someone, and there's a clear trend: someone who's meant to be in your life will change your life for the better.
So, when the universe doesn't want you to be with someone, it's usually because:
You have nothing in common
You believe in marriage, but they think it's an outdated institution. You'd like to be a parent someday, but they can't stand kids. Your financial views are completely different, and you can't agree on spiritual matters. If your core values are at odds, the universe doesn't want you to be with someone.
You don't feel safe with them
If you can't relax and be yourself around someone, consider it a red flag. The right person will make you feel comfortable, and you'll experience a sense of peace when they're around. For a meaningful relationship to develop, security is crucial. If you don't feel safe with them, the universe might be trying to warn you that they're not the one.
Things feel forced
When things are meant to be, they won't feel forced. Are you the only one making an effort to schedule dates? Do your conversations feel awkward? If you're doing all the heavy lifting, there might be nothing there.
Okay, maybe they're trying too. It's possible that you're both trying a little too hard — especially if that spark or chemistry isn't there. You might be compatible and attracted to each other, but if you don't have the universe's stamp of approval, you'll always feel like there's something missing.
Your subconscious says otherwise
One random dream is hardly anything to worry about. But, if you're having frequent dreams and thoughts about a specific person, like an old crush or ex-lover, the universe and your subconscious mind might be trying to tell you something.
If you know the person you're dreaming about, think about the qualities they possess. If these are qualities you desire in a romantic partner, and if the person you're seeing lacks these qualities, they may not be the one for you.
You have a gut feeling
A sinking feeling in your gut doesn't exactly point to something good. If there's this sense of foreboding whenever they're around, don't ignore it — the universe might be trying to protect you. Trust your instincts and see if you can pinpoint the source of the negative energy.
Your loved ones don't approve
Those closest to us tend to see things that we don't see. And sometimes, their unique insight is the universe's way of making sure you stay on the right track. The truth is, if someone gives your family members or friends bad vibes, they may not be for you. Even if you can't see it yet (because you're in the honeymoon phase), at least hear them out.
The Universe Wants You To Be With Someone, Now What?
If you haven't met them yet, surround yourself with positive energy and trust your intuition; you'll meet them at the perfect time. If you've found them, remember that a soul connection needs to be nurtured like any other committed relationship.